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Personal Insights

February 23, 2013 by Jeanne Vandermeer  
Filed under Coaching and Coping


Do you ever wonder if you will ever get the life you want?  Sometimes we have to go backward a bit in life before we can move forward.  If you find yourself at this crossroad, you are among the majority of people that begin to question life and what’s in store.

Start by assessing what you KNOW and LOVE about your life.  This could be as easy as listing immediately what comes to mind.  Your health, your spouse, close friends, and most importantly, what you KNOW and LOVE about yourself!

This simple exercise will help you get perspective so that you can move on in the right direction, and hopefully, find a clear path to your next most important step in creating the life you love!

1.  Write down the best qualities you possess; don’t be shy, you’re the only one who will see this.  Honesty? Integrity? Super-mad cooking skills?  Bring these wonderful features to life on paper.

2.  Imagine what YOU would say to yourself right now, about how you feel and how you are handling the stress and indecision in your life.  What advice would you give yourself?  Talk to the mirror if you have to.  Or write down your best recommendations based on your experience and/or knowledge.  You may be surprised at what you come up with.

3.  Be gentle with yourself.  You’re going through a preliminary metamorphosis.  Give yourself  “time to work things out” mentally.  Take your time.  There’s not big hurry on this step.

4.  Be quiet and still.  Listen for that inner voice that gives you direction.  Take a walk.  Watch your pet play. Sip a coffee at your local coffeehouse and just listen. 

5.  When you feel inspired, write down your thoughts.  All ideas and thoughts are messages to you from your subconscious.  Even if that thought seems really wild and “out there”, pay attention.  You may come up with a brilliant idea and clear path to follow.

6.  Wait 24 hours before you take any new actions.  Sometimes letting things settle in a bit before you move ahead gives clarity and purpose to your actions.  And, you may be inspired to see beyond the current decisions you’ve made to bring about a more productive end result.

7.  Finally, pray or meditate on this new thought.  Sometimes our angels, guardians, or the Universe will put into place all the people, circumstances and opportunities we’ve been waiting for when we relax, let go, and allow our lives to unfold.  Conscious effort, meditation, prayer and putting faith in the right outcome will produce miracles in your life.

If you need help figuring out your ‘next step’ in life, contact me.  I help people uncover their true talents, most appropriate career choices and hidden blocks.  I offer a  30 minute complimentary consult. Or, find out how you can discover your hidden talents and abilities through your handwriting in a personal Personality Profile offered in three convenient and easy to understand formats at very affordable rates.

The time to start is now! 

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